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Showing posts with label prayers. Show all posts
Showing posts with label prayers. Show all posts

Monday, July 29, 2019

Lord's Prayer, Our Prayer


7-28-19
Grace and peace to you from God our creator and from our Lord and savior Jesus the Christ by the power of the Holy Spirit, Amen.

When I was a kid, I remember reading a very special book of prayers. I turned to this book over and over again, because they were prayers written on a wide variety of topics, in a wise and profound, but also brief way. This book was not written by Martin Luther or Mother Teresa or Mr. Rogers…. It was written by kids. Some of these prayers are funny and very honest:

“Dear God, are you really invisible, or is that just a trick?”

“Dear God, Thank you for the baby brother, but what I wanted was a puppy.”

“Dear God, I think the stapler is one of your greatest inventions.”

Some of these kids also have some very serious things to say to God. One little girl wrote:
“Dear God, I bet it is very hard for you to love everybody in the whole world. There are only 4 people in my family and I can never do it.”

I wish I could tell this girl that this is hard for everybody, in our own families and in the whole world too, as we have seen all too often the tragic consequences of not loving one another in the news lately.

And lastly, this is my personal favorite prayer from this book:

“Dear God, I think about you sometimes even when I’m not praying.”

Our theme for today, if you haven’t noticed, is prayer. And hopefully you also recognized parts of the prayer that Jesus teaches his disciples. It is, of course, a version of what we know of as “The Lord’s Prayer.” This is actually the only time in our three-year cycle of readings that any part of Lord’s Prayer is comes up.

A more complete version of the Lord’s Prayer can be found in the Gospel of Matthew, and yet, we are hearing Luke’s version today. I like to think it’s because that in Luke, every time the disciples turn around, it seems, Jesus is praying. Like, all the time.

At the beginning of Luke, at Jesus’ baptism, Jesus was praying when the heavens opened, and the spirit descended on him, and God’s voice rang out, saying, ‘you are my Son, the Beloved; with you I am well pleased.’ Later on, right before Jesus asks his disciples that big question, “Who do YOU say that I am?” Jesus was praying. Along with Peter, James, and John, Jesus went up a mountain to pray and be transfigured. And even on the night of his betrayal, Jesus spend most of the night in prayer, and encourages his disciples to do the same, though of course they fail miserably.

Here, though, on their way to Jerusalem and on their way to the cross, the disciples are being observant, for once. They’ve seen Jesus praying before, they’ve noticed he does it often. And so, as Jesus’s students, they ask for a lesson in prayer. But what they got was perhaps not exactly what they were expecting.

There is so much packed into this little prayer we call the Lord’s Prayer. And even in this, an abbreviated version in Luke, there is a lot of big requests happening. Each of these petitions by themselves could easily take up an entire sermon. But all put together we paint a picture of the kind of God we pray to. The kind of God whose kingdom does not play by the rules of power that holds this world in sway. The kind of God who cares about our daily needs. The kind of God whose forgiveness abounds. The kind of God that does not send trials to us to see if our faith is “good enough” or “strong enough. A God that Jesus encourages us to call our father as our loving parent.

There are lots of prayers that are recorded in the Bible. And yet, THIS is the one that we as Christians have clung to as the most important. After all, this is the prayer that Jesus taught his followers to say.

For just one second we are going to get into our time machines of choice – the TARDIS, Delorian, time-turner, you get to pick – we are going to hop in and travel back to what you might have gone over in confirmation class. In the Small Catechism, in Martin Luther’s explanation of the beginning, or “first petition” of the Lord’s Prayer, he writes this: “With these words God wants to attract us, so that we come to believe he is truly our father and we are truly his children, in order that we may ask him boldly and with complete confidence, just as loving children ask their loving father.”

When Jesus prays in the Gospels, he calls God his Father. And here, when the disciples ask Jesus how to pray to God, Jesus wants us to follow his lead. He says, “when YOU pray…” we get to call God “father” too. Because it’s true. God is like a parent who loves us unconditionally and eternally, who provides and forgives and promises to be present with us in all circumstances. All because we are God’s beloved children.

Jesus doesn’t say that God will hear us only if we say the write words or the right kind of prayer, or if our faith is “strong” enough.  God will not refuse to hear the cries of God’s children in need if we don’t send that email to ten of our friends or if that child with cancer on Facebook DOESN’T get ten thousand “likes.”  God will not ignore us if we don’t have our lives put together, or don’t go to church “enough,” or if we let our minds wander during the prayers or hymns or sermon when we ARE at church. God will not discount our requests, even if God disagrees with them. God promises to hear you because God loves you.

As Paul wrote in his letter to the Colossians, the love of God is revealed to us by God making us alive together with Christ, setting aside the record of our sins by nailing them to the cross. And every time we pray, we are speaking to a God who loves us even more than a parent could possibly love their own child. A God who communicate back to us, who reveals Godself to us and is vulnerable enough to create two-way dialogue. Because sometimes even God needs to be reminded of who God is – a God of Justice AND a God of Grace.

Abraham did just that, and in this way is an excellent model for prayer – while Abraham knew of the great sins of Sodom and Gomorrah – sins of greed, lack of mercy, inhospitality, mistreatment of the vulnerable – and yet he also knew that there were might be some good people among them still. Ultimately, Abraham’s petitions of mercy failed, because there were not even 10 righteous people remained in those cities…but that was not Abraham’s fault. He still tried.

Now, not every moment of prayer for us will be a dramatic bargaining with the divine for the sake of a whole city. Our daily prayers will be more mundane, like those of the kids who asked for a puppy and got a brother or thanking God for the invention of the stapler. But maybe those prayers are just as profound.

I think that I love that little girl’s prayer from that book the most, the one that went, “Dear God, I think about you sometimes even when I’m not praying.” And sometimes, we even pray when we don’t know we are praying. Like when the disciples ask Jesus to teach them how to pray, their question is a prayer. Our questions, our wonderings, our thoughts, complaints and laments can all be prayers, and can become as unconscious as breathing.

We can pray with our hands – not just in folding them, but also in using them to construct a Lego tower of prayer, or in service to our neighbor, or coloring a picture with crayons to give to someone else…. We can use our voices, in singing our praise to God, and with giving an encouraging word … we can use our feet, when we march for justice or walk toward those who are in need. I dare say that we can even use our time, our money, our possessions, and even our social media to pray as well.

But whether or not we are aware of it, whether or not we are consciously praying, whether we have a set time to pray or pray whenever we have a need whether or not we are thinking about God, God is always thinking of us. And sometimes… when we pray to God… God actually listens. As long as we keep at it. Thanks be to God, amen.




Thursday, June 25, 2015

Confessing the Sin of Racism

This came out of a desire to take a hard look within myself to where I have let myself be blind to the sin of racism. The impulse arose from a conversation the NJ Synod had at our synod assembly on racism. In our randomized small group conversations, it became pretty obvious that a few of us were pretty clueless as to what white privilege really is. I found myself in deep need of forgiveness on the day after the shooting at Emanuel in Charleston. For me, white privilege means that I will never have to be afraid of being killed while leading a Bible study because of who I am or the color of my skin. 

Much of the following litany comes from confession portion of night prayer/compline, individual confession and forgiveness, and our baptismal liturgy, all from the Evangelical Lutheran Worship book. The first part is the closest thing I could find to what I was looking for, which is why I put this together.  I also included the "exorcism" and profession of faith portion of the baptismal liturgy, because it felt natural to both confess our sins and reject the demon of racism. Please borrow, steal, change, and use this as you see fit. Presiding Bishop Elizabeth Eaton has invited us to participate in an ELCA-wide day of remembrance and mourning, and this could act as a supplement. 




Prayer of Confession

For the racism which denies dignity to those who are different, Lord, forgive us:
Lord, have mercy.

For the racism which recognizes prejudice in others and never in ourselves, Christ, forgive us:
Christ, have mercy.

For the racism which will not recognize the work of your Spirit in other cultures, Lord, forgive us:
Lord, have mercy.

(from the United Church of Canada, www.united-church.ca/bfw/resources.shtm)

Confession

Lord, have mercy.
Christ, have mercy.
Lord, have mercy.

Holy and Gracious God –

I confess that I have sinned against you, this day and every day. Some of my sin I know, but some is known only to you.

I confess the conscious and unconscious ways I participate in evils of racism.

I confess that I am a complicit participant in the structures and institutions that grow oppression, injustice, and prejudice against some of your children in this country and around the world who have darker skin than I do.  Instead of searching for a new future, I choose the status quo.

I confess that I willingly have listened to and believed the media which paints our brothers and sisters in broad strokes, saying that people who seem different are “crazy” or “dangerous.”  Instead of seeking openness and understanding, I give in to my fear.

I confess that I do not take responsibility for the fact that at one time in this country it was legal for one human being to own, rape, and use another human being. I confess I forget to see the generational damage and repeating repercussions of this truth.  Instead of remembering, I choose blame.

I confess that talking about white privilege makes me feel uncomfortable, and so I allow myself to forget that it exists, even though my ability to do so proves its existence.  Instead of seeking the bright day of truth, I choose blindness.

I have been silent when I have been called to speak.  
I have stayed my hand when I have been called to act and reach out.
I have been afraid when I have been called to love.

In the name of Jesus Christ, who heals, loves, and gathers all people, I ask for forgiveness. Deliver and restore me, and bring to me your peace.

Absolution

Cling to this promise: the word of forgiveness I speak to you comes from God. By water and the Holy Spirit, God gives you a new birth. Neither death nor life nor angels or demons nor painful past or uncertain future can rip us from this promise. Through the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ, God forgives you all your sins. Through his violent death at the hand of hate and sin, Jesus defeated the powers of evil in order to bring us together as one people. Now, as the beloved people of God, may Almighty God strengthen you in all goodness and truth and keep you forever in eternal life. Amen.

 Profession of Faith

 I ask you to profess your faith in Christ Jesus, reject sin, and confess the faith of the church. Do you renounce the devil and all the forces that defy God?

 I renounce them.

Do you renounce the powers of this world that rebel against God?

I renounce them.

Do you renounce the ways of sin that draw you from God?

I renounce them.

Do you believe in God the Father?

I believe in God, the Father almighty, creator of heaven and earth.

Do you believe in Jesus Christ, the Son of God?

I believe in Jesus Christ, God's only Son, our Lord, who was conceived by the Holy Spirit, born of the virgin Mary, suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, died, and was buried; he descended to the dead. On the third day he rose again; he ascended into heaven, he is seated at the right hand of the Father, and he will come to judge the living and the dead.

Do you believe in God the Holy Spirit?

I believe in the Holy Spirit, the holy catholic church, the communion of saints, the forgiveness of sins, the resurrection of the body, and the life everlasting. Amen.


Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Prayers in regard to the heroin epidemic

I am part of our NJ Synod Substance Abuse and Recovery and Engagement team, which lead one of the break out sessions during synod assembly. My role was to pray at the beginning and end of the session. This kind of thing is not exactly covered in our red pastoral care book, so here is what I came up with. I hope it can be helpful. The heroin epidemic is not just for the inner cities and urban areas. Kids with sports injuries can be prescribed opiate pain killers, and heroin is a cheaper and easier to get alternative. A shot of heroin now costs less than most 6 packs of beer ( $5-7). See more information on the NJ heroin crisis here.

Holy God, there are so  many forces in this world that defy your will and draw us away from you. This world is in the sway of the devil and all his empty promises everywhere we turn. We and the people we love are in the grip of these empty promises, one way being in the thrall of heroin addiction. Save us, Lord. Rescue us, Lord. Comfort us, Lord, Strengthen us, Lord. Encourage us, Lord. Be with us Lord. Amen. 



Loving God, We thank you for this time of learning and fellowship and blessing one another. You have strengthened and equipped us in mind, body, and spirit to be a resource and representative of your loving presence to our families and friends suffering from all aspects of heroin and drug addiction. Send us out into this broken world that you love to be your agents of peace, strength, and comfort. Amen.